What’s OK for you? What’s not OK for you? Would you feel some type of way if your partner cuddled after they had sex with their new partner? Are you allowed to post about your open relationship on social media? Can you sleep with friends? Coming up with a “Yes/No/Maybe” list — sexual acts or behaviors with your new partners that are a “yes,” “no,” or a “maybe” — can come in clutch. Schechinger also says that scheduling check-in times in advance can also be helpful.